Guide
Legal Name vs Work Name
Most providers (and many clients) maintain a separate work-facing identity. This guide is the operational manual: what crosses, what doesn\'t, and the workarounds that keep both worlds intact.
What Stays in Each World
Legal name only: passport, driver\'s licence, bank accounts, tax filings, employment, rental leases, utility accounts, court orders, marriage licence, medical records, employer insurance.
Work name only: profile photos, advertising, professional social media, client SMS, client booking system, work email, work phone number, business cards, professional development networks.
Bridges (carefully): verified screening services, business banking with DBA / trading-as, Wise or similar payment platforms (legal name behind the scenes, work name in the user-facing field where supported), professional liability insurance.
Screening Services
Verified screening services are the cleanest bridge. They hold your legal-name ID privately and issue work-name-tagged verification status. Examples: P411, Date-Check, Adultwork verified, V-Apps, agency-internal verification. The model: client provides legal name + employer + reference to the service, the service confirms or denies, the provider sees only "yes/no". Same model in reverse for client-facing checks.
Banking and Tax
Bank accounts are legal-name only. Workaround: a sole-trader or LLC entity with a DBA ("Doing Business As") name. The legal entity is your legal name; the trading name is your work name. Clients pay the trading name; bank holds it under legal entity. This satisfies KYC, lets clients pay invoices under the work name, and keeps tax compliance clean. UK: register a sole trader with HMRC, then operate under "trading as". US: file DBA at county/state level. Germany: Kleinunternehmer with a Geschäftsbezeichnung. Most jurisdictions support this.
Tax: file under legal name. Tax authority doesn\'t care about your trading name; they care about the income.
Rental and Address
Landlords run credit checks. Most provider-friendly cities have specific solutions:
- Berlin / Hamburg / Frankfurt: Apartmenthotels with serviced-apartment KYC; sex-work-aware rental agencies.
- Amsterdam: the window itself is rented (work name fine); separate residential apartment under legal name.
- UK: short-let platforms (Airbnb, SpareRoom) with reduced KYC; "no questions" private landlords.
- Vienna: Privathaus arrangements include the housing.
